If You're in Crisis
If you're feeling overwhelmed, unsafe, or having thoughts of self-harm, please reach out to a crisis support line immediately. You don't have to face this alone.
What To Do Right Now
Take these steps at your own pace. Your safety and wellbeing come first.
Breathe—This Is Survivable
First momentWhat you're feeling right now is completely valid. Shock, anger, shame, fear—all of it. But know that thousands of people have been through this and recovered. You will too.
Document the Evidence
When readyAs painful as it is, screenshot every URL, username, and instance you find. Don't view more than necessary—just capture what you need. This evidence helps with removal and any legal action.
Don't Contact the Person
ImportantAs tempting as it is to confront them, don't. Communication can complicate legal action and give them more power. Let the process handle it.
Report to Platforms
Same dayMost platforms have specific reporting for non-consensual intimate images. Facebook, Instagram, Google, Reddit, and many others will remove this content when reported.
Consider Your Options
Your timelineYou can file content removal requests yourself, get professional help, pursue legal action, or some combination. There's no wrong choice—do what feels right for your situation.
Know Your Rights
The law is on your side
Criminal Laws
48 states + DC have laws criminalizing non-consensual sharing of intimate images. Federal SHIELD Act provides nationwide protection with up to 5 years imprisonment.
Platform Removal
All major platforms prohibit revenge porn. Google, Meta, Reddit, Twitter/X, TikTok, and others have specific processes to report and remove non-consensual intimate imagery.
Civil Remedies
You may be able to sue for emotional distress, invasion of privacy, and damages. Some victims have recovered significant settlements from perpetrators.
Questions You Might Have
Is this my fault?
No. Absolutely not. You trusted someone or your privacy was violated. The person who shared your images without consent is the only one at fault. You did nothing wrong.
Will everyone find out?
Most non-consensual sharing stays relatively contained. Quick action significantly limits spread. Getting content removed from search engines makes it much harder for people to discover by accident.
Can I really get this removed?
Yes. Platforms take NCII (non-consensual intimate imagery) reports seriously. Google has a specific form for this. Most mainstream sites remove content within days. Even stubborn sites can often be pressured through hosting providers.
Should I go to the police?
That's your choice. In most states, you can press criminal charges. Some people find this empowering; others want to handle it privately. We can connect you with attorneys who specialize in these cases if you want to explore legal options.
What if it's someone I know?
Many cases involve ex-partners, acquaintances, or people who gained access to private images. Knowing the perpetrator doesn't change your rights or options—it may actually make legal action easier to pursue.
I'm too embarrassed to ask for help
This is completely understandable, and also completely unnecessary. Professional services handle these cases every day with zero judgment. What matters is getting you help, not judging your situation.
Support Resources
Cyber Civil Rights Initiative
24/7 crisis helpline for victims of non-consensual pornography
844-878-CCRI (2274)